Every time you’re with a man or he’s with you, each of you is giving off signals that you might not even be aware of. I want to share some of these with you because once you get this … it’s like having a behind-the-scenes playbook for knowing whether or not he’s into you.

Leaning in tells a man you’re warm, friendly and interested.
When we like someone, we have a subconscious1 tendency to lean in towards them. When you do this or you tip your head or body forward, you are showing a man that you are friendly and warm. When you pull away or sit way back in your chair, in essence you’re telling a man that you’re turned off and not interested in him.
Want to know if he’s interested in you?
If you’re standing2 and talking, look down to see the direction his feet are pointing. If they’re pointing toward you … it’s a good sign that he’s into you. His feet pointed3 away from you is a pretty good indicator4 that he’s not going to ask you for a second date. And when he’s standing with one foot pointed towards you and one foot towards the door, he’s done and ready to go.
When you’re on a date, don’t cross your arms or put your purse directly in front of your body.
If his arms are crossed, it’s likely he’s either closed off or protecting himself in some way. When this happens, try leaning in towards him. This is the signal for letting him know you’re interested, which may cause him to drop his arms and open up to you. If he continues the date with his arms crossed over his chest then chances are this date is heading nowhere. Use an exit strategy and move on to someone whose body language shows you he’s into you.
Don’t invade his space by sitting too close when you first meet unless he invites you into his space.
The space between five and 18 inches is considered the intimate zone. It’s a great space to be in when you’re in a relationship and you want romance and intimacy5. But when you’re just meeting someone stay a little more than an arms length from them unless they give you signals via touch or a kiss to come in closer.
Matching body posture6 makes a man feel like you understand him.
When he leans in, you lean in. When he pulls back, you do the same. But a word of warning here … don’t match any man’s aggression7 or anger.
Touch is important!
When a man tells a story and you agree with him, lightly touch him on the arm as you share that you understand. Most people like touch and respond to it in a positive way. That’s because touch feels good and makes the person being touched feel special. And we all love feeling special … right?
1 subconscious   [ˌsʌbˈkɒnʃəs]   
Nail biting is often a subconscious reaction to tension.咬指甲通常是紧张时的下意识反映。
My answer seemed to come from the subconscious.我的回答似乎出自下意识。
2 standing   [ˈstændɪŋ]    
After the earthquake only a few houses were left standing.地震过后只有几幢房屋还立着。
They’re standing out against any change in the law.他们坚决反对对法律做任何修改。
3 pointed  [ˈpɔɪntɪd]   
He gave me a very sharp pointed pencil.他给我一支削得非常尖的铅笔。
She wished to show Mrs.John Dashwood by this pointed invitation to her brother.她想通过对达茨伍德夫人提出直截了当的邀请向她的哥哥表示出来。
4 indicator  [ˈɪndɪkeɪtə(r)]    
Gold prices are often seen as an indicator of inflation.黃金价格常常被看作是通货膨胀的指标。
His left-hand indicator is flashing.他左手边的转向灯正在闪亮。
5 intimacy   [ˈɪntɪməsi]    
His claims to an intimacy with the President are somewhat exaggerated.他声称自己与总统关系密切,这有点言过其实。
I wish there were a rule book for intima

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